Valentine's Day Celebrations

Well last year for Valentine's Day, Robert and I spent the whole night going to 10 different Wal-Marts to find all of the neck ties we needed for the men in our wedding party. Needless to say, we stepped it up a little this year ;)

We started out with dinner Saturday night at Chuck-A-Rama. Not the most fancy place, I know, but it's one of my favorites.

Then Sunday morning the first thing Robert did was give me some red tulips.

Then when I walked out into the family room I was greeted by this...

While Robert was in the bathroom getting ready for church, I set this up for him.

Yep, I got him socks, a nose hair trimmer, and super hero valentines. Am I romantic or what?? Then when we got back from church Robert gave me these...

And these...

Then as I was taking a Sunday afternoon nap with my new teddy bear...

...Robert prepared all of this!

Chicken Mexicana and rice with salad. He bought the tablecloth and the candles and everything. He is AMAZING!!! He wanted to make sure that I got all the typical presents that girls are supposed to get from their men on Valentine's Day. He even made up this cute secret Valentine's Day checklist that I wasn't allowed to see, and every time he did something on the list he would check it off. It was a great day!! My husband is wonderful. I LOVE him SOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!

I can't wait for our anniversary this Sunday when we can have another fun filled day of making each other feel special :)

Valentine's Day Cookies

After that rather lengthy post I did yesterday I think it's time for a random fun moment post. For family home evening on Monday, Robert and I made Valentine's Day cookies.

We carefully rolled out the sugar cookie dough and cut out the heart shapes. I was slightly worried that we had rolled out the dough too thin. But we ended up having a completely different problem.

Turns out that the store brand cookie dough that we got doesn't like to fluff up at all like normal sugar cookie dough. It just expands. But don't worry. I being the brilliant, resourceful person that I am thought of a way to turn these lemons into lemonade, or I guess, in this case, blobs into hearts.

For anyone who has ever wondered, sometimes you can use cookie cutters, before AND after you bake the cookies.

Here are the finished cookies. There are still a couple blobs that we had frosted before I thought to cut the cookies again, but hey, a heart cookie by any other shape tastes just as sweet ;) We took some really fun video footage of the whole adventure, but I can't get it to load right onto the laptop, so public viewing of those will have to happen another day.

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!!!

My name is Heidi...

and I am a homebody.

I feel bad that I don't update more, but there really just isn't a whole lot of new and exciting things going on in our lives. Am I complaining? Not at all! We're happy. I'm content. I enjoy being home all day almost every day. Do I sometimes wish I was still working? Yes, but only so we wouldn't have to rely so much on student loan money, but we're getting by. And I went to go pick up my W2 from my old job the other day, and turns out that they've had to downsize, so even if I hadn't quit I would have been laid off anyway. Things just work out the way they're supposed to.

Anyway, I like being home. I read, I clean, I cook, I surf the web, I prepare my Primary lessons, I practice piano, and I'm getting a ton of unfinished projects done. I also look online at different baby things and get more and more excited for Lydia to come. While I am doing this I have long conversations with Lydia :) I figure I might as well set some things straight with her before she's even born. For example, she is never going to grow up. She's going to be my little sweet baby forever and ever :) And that's my life right now. Simple and happy.

But what about our future life? What's in store for us after Robert graduates in April and Lydia is born in May? I wish we knew. We go back and forth from having a set Plan A and Plan B to having 50 different possibilities come up. Right now we are in the midst of a 50 different possibility moment. When we are in Plan A/Plan B mode that means that Plan A: Robert gets an actuarial job in AZ and we move there once the Lydia is ready to be moved. Or Plan B: Robert goes to graduate school at ASU and we still move to AZ once Lydia is ready to be moved. The problem with Plan B is that if Robert goes to graduate school without getting an actuarial position first, chances are slim to none that he'll ever be able to get an actuarial position because when actuarial firms are hiring, whether it be for an internship or a job, they will look at people coming straight out of college first. Also, an actuarial position would pay a good amount more in the long run than any of the fields Robert would go to graduate school for. Which brings us to our 50 possibilities. (Some of those possibilities have to do with different graduate programs Robert could do at ASU, but I won't go into that in detail.) Lately, several different actuarial firms have come to BYU to do different presentations that are hiring on interns for the summer. NONE of them are internships for in Arizona. But they are everywhere else - Chicago, New York, Seattle, Columbus Ohio, Atlanta Georgia, Los Angeles, Michigan, Baltimore, New Jersey, Texas, Pennsylvania, and on and on and on. It would be for a 10 week paid internship, and they would also pay for some living expenses. We've decided at this point to apply to all of them and see what offers we get and then decide from there. But what if we are offered a position in Seattle, Texas, and Chicago. Neither of us really have any family or friends in any of those places or have any other reason to prefer one over the other. How would we decide? It might come down to saying a prayer and then throwing darts at each location on a dart board. But let's say we chose Seattle. With Robert passing as many actuary exams as he has, doing the different research programs, and learning the different computer languages that he has, there is a very real possibility that Robert will be one of the leading candidates to be offered a permanent position. Our ultimate goal, wish, desire, or whatever you want to call it is to end up in Mesa, AZ with all of our family. These companies that are hiring on interns all have offices in Arizona, they just aren't hiring there right now. So let's say that we are in Seattle and at the end of the internship they offer Robert a permanent position. We would maybe want to take the offer so that Robert could get his foot in the door in the actuarial field and keep an eye out for openings in Arizona (best case scenario) with that company so he could just transfer and stay with the same company or an opening with another company in Arizona. But it could be anywhere from 1 year to 5 years or more that we could be waiting to get a position in Arizona. Would it be worth living away from our true home that long, or would we want to turn down the offer and then Robert would continue with his plan to go to grad school at ASU this fall. So if we think in terms of our hope and dream of living in Arizona, it's a decision of do we want to move to Arizona in 4 months (don't take an internship), 6 months (take an internship), or 1-5+ years. Both mine and Robert's first impulse when we look at it that way is that we miss our family. We hate being away from them. We think about our little baby that will be here soon and we want Lydia to be friends with and grow up surrounded by her cousins, aunts/uncles, grandparents. So the sooner we are in Arizona the better. If we look at it in terms of income, as an entry level actuary Robert would start out at at least $50,000-$60,000 a year. That would increase significantly after one year and in 10 years he would be making approximately $100-150,000 a year (could be up to $300,000). With the other fields (Geographical Information Systems is the leading candidate right now) that Robert would go into after graduate school (which grad school also means more student loans for tuition and what not) on average he would start at $40,000 a year and in 10 years be making somewhere between $60-80,000 a year. Being from a big family that money was/is a near constant worry, from this viewpoint the decision is a no brainer. However that can also be interpreted as me saying that the money takes priority over our family, BUT at the same time we also need to be thinking what is best in the long run for OUR little family (Robert, Lydia, and me), BUT we don't need to be making $150,000 a year to be happy. We could be the happiest family in the history of the world and only be making $50,000, or even $30,000 a year.

Anyway, that is our predicament. I could go on for much longer, but I think I rambled enough already. For those of you who managed to read through this whole thing without falling asleep, you deserve a pat on the back. Any input is welcome, but I mainly wrote this all out just to get it all out of my head :) I know everything will work out the way it is supposed to. We are constantly praying about it, and we know when it comes down to final decision time, He will guide us to what we need to do. But right now we just feel like we are treading water, and our arms are getting really tired from doing so.

Bulbs vs. Cloves

Dear readers,

Nothing new is really going on in our lives right now. Just enjoying life and preparing for Lydia, but I wanted to post something just so everyone knows we are alive. So I will share with you a valuable lesson that Robert and I learned recently.
These are bulbs of garlic. This is how you buy garlic from the store. Until this past Sunday, neither Robert or myself had ever made a recipe that used actual garlic. We've used garlic powder and garlic salt a plenty, but never actual garlic. Anyway, we were attempting to make a salsa recipe that called for 2 cloves of garlic. I thought that what you bought from the store, as pictured above, were cloves of garlic. But alas...

The little sections of this bulb you see here are cloves of garlic. Depending on the size of a bulb, in one bulb of garlic there can be anywhere from 8 to 20 cloves. And on top of us putting way too much in, we also didn't peel the cloves individually, so they went into the salsa, skins and all. Luckily, when we were looking at the 2 bulbs we thought that it looked like way too much garlic, so we only put 1 in. So we only smelled like and everything tasted like garlic for almost 3 days, as opposed to a whole week.

Moral of the story #1: Never assume you know anything about ingredients you are using for the first time.

Moral of the story #2: There is such a thing as too much garlic!!

The End

Back in the Saddle Again...

Well now we are back in Provo and getting back to life. We got a new Primary class. There are only 4 in the class, 2 girls and 2 boys. The girls are both terrified of men, even Robert ;) One of the boys is an only child that either gets his way or cries a very LOUD cry. His thing right now is that every time we say choose the right (which is A LOT at the beginning of the year in young Primary classes), he says, "NO!!! I choose the LEFT!!!!" And if we try to explain that we aren't talking about right and left, but right and wrong, he bursts into tears. He also has Harry Potter glasses that he brings to class, and when he wears them he will not respond to us unless we call him Harry Potter. The other boy is more mature than all the others, therefore he hates coming to our class and dealing with the other kids. He would rather go to one of the older ones. So, fun challenges ahead, but we are ready to face them.

Robert finally got his third Actuarial Exam scores back that he took back in November. This one was a 2 part test. He got 10 out of 10 on one part and 8 out of 10 on the other. Just as a reminder, these exams are a big deal. So AMAZING!!!! My husband is AMAZING!!! He's started into his last semester at BYU with full speed ahead. I can't believe Robert is going to be a college graduate in 3 and a half months. They grow up so fast!! *tear*

Our baby girl is doing great. I can feel her all of the time now. Robert has even felt her a couple of times too which makes him light up every time. We had an ultrasound with our doctor's office today (the last one was with Robert's uncle) and we finally got to keep some pictures of our sweet little Lydia. We're more than halfway there now. Here's a few of the pictures for you all to admire :)

Look at her cute little nose!!

She's still a girl :) We kept joking around about how funny it would be if this nurse was positive it was a boy when Robert's uncle was positive it was a girl. We know people that have been through a similar situation ;)

She's waving hi in this one :)

And last but not least, the foot. I love little baby feet!!! I can't wait til I can smooch her toes all day long :)

With this ultrasound they did push her due date back a little bit to May 19th. I'm actually crossing my fingers that she'll come a couple weeks early so I can make it down to Arizona for my sister's graduation. But we'll see.

And now you are officially updated on our lives. I hope you enjoyed it :)

Christmas time is... was here

Christmas was PERFECT!!!! As always, only a couple of pictures. I used to take pictures all of the time. I am sure once I have a cute little baby girl with me, I won't be able to stop taking pictures :) Anyway, Robert and I got a TON of stuff. Everyone was way too generous! We were barely able to pack it all in our car to bring it home. We loved all of our presents. We got all sorts of games and baby things. Some of our favorites were the new "Favorite Songs For LDS Children" and smelly good stuff from my parents, a Wii and new digital camera from Robert's parents, and a homemade wooden cradle from Terrel and Jenn. But my ULTIMATE favorite present is the present Robert got me. A Glider/Rocker and Ottoman - The perfect Mommy-to-be present. Here is a picture of it once we got it put together in our apartment. It's BEAUTIFUL and so comfy.

Other than the presents we spent a ton of time with our families. I can't wait until we can spend time with them any time we want to. They are just so much fun! Here's a picture of me Christmas morning at my parents' house for Christmas breakfast with my nieces, Cami and Anna, and my brand new nephew, Case.

Aside from my not put together face and hair, I love this picture. All of my nieces and nephews are so cute!! And they are all growing into beautiful young women and handsome young men. And look at how sweet and small Case is!!! He's only about 2 weeks old in this picture. While I was holding him, my little Lydia was jumping all over the place inside of me. It was so cute.

Our Christmas day was busy but great. We opened presents at my parents' house, then at Robert's parents' house, ate breakfast at Robert's parents' house, then at my parents' house, stayed at my parents' for a bit, then went to visit Robert's grandpa, then back to my parents' house, then that night we went to Robert's parents', then to our friends' house for hot chocolate, and then back to my parents' house. It was a GREAT day!! The highlight however was talking to my brother Preston who called from his LDS mission in Washington Kinnewick Mission. It was so great to talk to him. We've always been so close. It was really hard to limit my time, but the time that I did have was wonderful. He is doing great.

The day after Christmas is when Robert's dad's side of the family celebrates Christmas. So that morning we did a session at the temple, and then we went to Robert's grandparents' house for all of those festivities. This is a picture of my sister Jamie, well sister-in-law but only by title, she's my sister... so there. The little girl is our cousin Ashlynn. She is so sweet.

It's taken a bit of getting used to having cousins that are all younger than me. In both my mom and dad's families the closest 1st cousins in age to me are at least 3 years older than me, and they're boys, and all of the rest of the cousins are older. But on Robert dad's side, the closest cousin is 5 years younger than me and the rest are younger, and there are 31 cousins with 4 more on the way. It's fun that I am pregnant with 3 of my aunts (one is pregnant with twins) :). Anyway, I love it, and all of the kids are so much fun.

After the party at Grandma and Grandpa's we left with Robert's family to their cabin in Christopher Creek for the weekend. It was so much fun to relax and play games with Robert's family. And the whole week it was especially fun getting to know Terrel's new wife, Jenn, better. She's awesome.

(I just realized how long this post is getting so I am going to do a quick vacation sum up)

The rest of the vacation was awesome too :)

Christmas Decorations

We decided a while ago that we wouldn't buy much as far as decorations go this year. Instead, we would just get a couple little things, make the rest, then buy the bigger things for next year after Christmas this year when it was all on clearance. So here's what we ended up with.

First, our 2 foot pre-lit Christmas tree that we got at Wal-mart for $8. Decorated with tinsel stuff that we got for $1, and homemade snowflakes and stars. We bought it down in Arizona when we were there for Thanksgiving. Somewhere between there and here the stand broke. So I made one out of K-Nex. My brother, Preston, would be so proud :)

Second, our window decorations. Lights that we got for $2 and homemade snowflakes once again. If you are wondering what the lights are being held up with, it's yellow duct tape. If you know me, this doesn't surprise you.

Third, a paper chain to brighten up the room :)

And last but not least, the Christmas tree calendar that my Grandma Hall makes for all of the grandkids once they are married.

I think that everything looked great :) And it was fun making everything together.

Thanksgiving

I need to do some major catching up on this blog, so prepare yourself for a plethora, or maybe just a few posts :)

We had a wonderful Thanksgiving in Arizona. It had been a while since we had seen a lot of the family, so it was fun to visit with everyone. Robert especially enjoyed finally getting Scott and Becky's twins (our nephews) to really warm up to him. Every time they would see him they would start smiling and saying "Rob-ee-uht! Rob-ee-uht!" There was one day that we were watching them and Robert was playing with them for a solid hour or two on the trampoline. After they were done, they came in and crashed on the couch. It's the only picture I took the whole trip and I took it with my cell phone, but it's a priceless one :)


It reminds me of someone else I know...


This was taken of me when I was babysitting about 3 or 4 years ago. Are we going to be the greatest parents or what?!? ;)

Anyway, it was a great trip. We were there for almost a week, and we were constantly going back and forth between our families which is so fun. It's so awesome that our families live so close to each other and that we love spending time with both of them. We also get 2 Thanksgiving dinners. Can life get better!?!

The verdict is in...

We had an ultrasound yesterday and we are having a GIRL!!!! We are naming her Lydia Ann. We are both very excited! She is measuring exactly to what we had been told was her due date so the due date is still May 15th. Only 19 a half weeks to go!!!!

"It's the holiday season...

so whoop-dee-doo, and dickeree dock, and don't forget to hang up your sock..."

It's definitely that time of year, and for the first time in my life it's a white time of year. Remember this picture...


This is from the "First Official Snow" post I did about a month ago. It didn't really snow much after that until last weekend...

I would like say that this is what it looks like now, but unfortunately I took this a week ago, and now it's gotten worse. I don't like the snow. Yes, it can be pretty, but it's cold, slippery, and I haven't been able to feel my toes since I was in Mesa, AZ for Thanksgiving. BUT it's been Rain/Snow-ing for the past 2 days and when you have rain and snow you get SLUSH. I HATE SLUSH!! Imagine walking the whole way (which is only one block for us, but still) to church in a 1 or 2 inch deep Icee. It's miserable, especially since I don't have any snow worthy shoes yet. And it makes driving conditions horrible which isn't good for anybody. Needless to say, I can't wait til we leave for sunny AZ this Friday for 2 whole weeks. My toes are getting warmer just thinking about it :)

In other news, Robert and I learned a valuable lesson today. In case anybody is curious, if you ever want to give yourself a heart attack just do a fingerpainting project with a Primary class of eight 5-year-olds. (If you want to get technical, only 7 of them are 5. One boy is a Sunbeam who refused to go to his class today, but wanted to come to ours.)

The Primary Presidency asked every class to do a secret service project. So Robert and I both somehow came up with the bright, same idea that we could use some fingerpaints that we've had for a long time but never used and make a poster. Once the paint dries we will write Merry Christmas on it and leave it on an inactive widow's doorstep with some cookies. I think it turned out great. But the process was tense. The kids were great! They let us roll up all of their sleeves, they all took turns without fighting, and as soon as they were done with their 2 handprints they let us clean up their hands with a wipe. But Robert and I knew that all it would take was one kid to accidentally bump another kid with some paint for a paint fight to explode. But we made it without a single drop getting anywhere it shouldn't. Talk about taking a leap of faith.

This was also our last Sunday with this Primary class since we are leaving for Christmas. I can't believe I made it all the way through class without crying. I have grown to love each and every one of these kids so much!! They all have such individual, sweet, special spirits. Some of my favorite quotes from this year...
During a lesson on forgiveness, Jacob says "Um, I forgive white people all of the time, but I only forgive black people some of the time (pause) I just don't see them as often."
Annabel sees my new hair color and asks "Hey, how did your hair change colors?" "I dyed it" She then looks horrified/worried and says "IT DIED!!"
There are so many more fun quotes and stories and also a lot of testimony building spiritual ones, but a lot of them are "you had to be there" moments.

Here's Robert with our class

And then it was my turn, but by then they had already lost interest :)

Anyway, I'm sad that this year is over, but I'm excited for what next year has to bring. The Presidency told us today that they are debating putting us as the Primary music, but aren't sure if they want to do that to me, knowing that it won't be long before I am huge pregnant. But we would love the chance even if it is for just a few months. It's our DREAM! Only time will tell. We will still be happy if we stay right where we are at CTR 5.

And last but not least, by popular demand, my first baby bump pic.

We actually took this a little more than a week ago, so I might be a little bit bigger than I am in this pic, but it'll do for now. Robert's uncle might be doing an ultrasound while we are in Mesa. So we might know what the baby is before Christmas!! I can't wait to find out. I don't care either way, I just want to know!!

That's it for now. Happy Holidays!!!

In Sickness and Health

I know it's been a while since I've updated, and I will definitely do that soon. But today I came across this video on lds.org and I was bawling by the end of it. I don't think I share enough of my testimony and faith on here, so I wanted to be sure to post this right away when the feelings are still fresh.



As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints (commonly known as the Mormons)I believe that if my family and I live righteously and in accordance with the plan that Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ have set for us, my family can be together forever.

Robert likes to joke about how many guys he can think of that must have been really disappointed to find out that Robert had snatched me up and taken me off the dating market before they had even gotten a chance. But I knew without a doubt that among all of the possibilities out there, Robert was the one that I wanted and needed. He is always happy with life and loved me purely and unconditionally right from the start, and he was someone who had lived his life in a way that turned him into a man that I could love just as much in return. And if you are going to be with each other forever, you need to love each other. This isn't a starter marriage, this isn't just for now, or until death do us part. This is for FOREVER. We're in it for the long haul and enjoying every step along the way.

Our goal is to love each other more everyday and we've been successful so far. I hope that when we've been married for 53 years we will be just like the old couple in this video. Maybe I'll be the one who's memory is fading, but Robert will be sitting there with his arm around me talking and joking about how we were failed high school sweethearts that got a second chance and have loved each other ever since. Or maybe Robert will be the one who's memory is fading, and I'll be there holding his hand and talking about how it took Robert 45 minutes of stuttering, stammering, and rambling while driving in circles before he finally got up the nerve to tell me that he liked me for the first time. I don't know what the exact situation will be, but I do know that we will be together and we will be happy then and forever after that because we have each other and the Gospel in our lives.

Silly me...

I forgot a very important and significant thing in the updates I made yesterday.

This is Terrel (Robert's brother) and his new wife, Jenn. They got married in the San Diego Temple on November 7th. We were able to go and it was WONDERFUL. The temple is beautiful, Jenn was a gorgeous bride, Terrel didn't look too bad, and the ring ceremony afterward was wonderful. Everything was just great - minus some pregnancy sickness on my part ;) Anyway, Terrel is a great brother. I have so many wonderful brothers-in-law and he's right up there with the rest of them. I'm so happy that he is finally married to the girl that he loves so much, and I am so thankful that the girl that he loves so much is Jenn. She's awesome. I haven't been able to spend a whole lot of time with her yet, but the little time we have spent together has been great. She's fun, funny, really good at drawing while blindfolded, and sticks to what she believes in no matter the price. And quite honestly, I think we were destined to be sisters-in-law. Why, you may ask. Well, I have the exact same skirt that she is wearing in this picture. I bought it 5 years ago and still wear it all of the time. You see what I mean... Destiny!

Anyway, Jenn, welcome to the family!! And CONGRATULATIONS TO TERREL AND JENN!!! Welcome to the Married Folks Club! It's a great one to be in!!

First Official Snow

So in my opinion it isn't officially the first snow of the year until it sticks. It has already snowed a couple of times but it would melt as soon as it hit the ground. But we woke up this morning to our official first snow.

It's not much, but it is enough. The snow season is officially upon us!

And a random side note, my husband is AMAZING! Through all of my swine flu sickness and pregnancy sick he has gone above and beyond his call of duty. He waits on me hand and foot, cleans up the apartment, does all of the shopping, randomly buys me tulips and chocolate milk, puts up with my pregnancy mood swings, and on and on and on. This is on top of all of his school work. He is amazing! He does what he can to enjoy it too. When he does the dishes he finds pleasure in stacking the dishes on the drying towel as efficiently and creatively as he can.

I don't know what I would do without him, and during this month of Thanksgiving I want everyone to know that I am thankful for my husband, the most awesome man in the world!!!

Speaking of Thanksgiving, I AM SO EXCITED!!! I can't wait to see my families. I can practically taste the Bavarian Kreme Donuts already!

Craigslist Score!!

I like to browse craigslist every few days to see if there are any great deals. Lately I have mainly been looking through baby items and maternity clothes. A couple days ago I saw an ad for a 30 gallon plastic container that was packed full, so full you couldn't get the lid on, with maternity clothes that the ad said ranged from just barely pregnant to 9 months pregnant for only $40. There wasn't a picture which worried me, but I decided that it was worth checking into. So Robert and I went to this ladies house so I could look through the clothes. After a quick glance, it looked like there were a few things I could use so we bought it. After I got it home and was pulling all of the clothes out I got more and more excited! Here's a picture of everything I got!

It's hard to see what all is there, so let me list them for you. On the floor there are:
8 pairs of pants (3 dress pants, 3 khaki, and 2 jean)
1 pair of shorts
10 pairs of capris

On the couch going from left to right:
1 long winter coat
4 jumpers
1 skirt
3 dresses (including a cute black one that I LOVE!!)
25 shirts (my favorites are the 6 cute pattern ones that are on the seat of the couch on the right)
2 pairs of pajama pants, one comes with a matching top
2 bra extenders

Can I say SCORE!?! Of all of these things I probably won't use only 3-5 of the shirts, the shorts, and 3 of the jumpers. I paid less than 69 cents an item which is awesome because the winter coat alone would have been more than $40. Needless to say, I am happy with my purchase!!!

P.S. She threw in the plastic container she had all of the clothes in (about a $40 value) for only $5.