Monday, December 31, 2012

Christmas Card Richardson Review of 2012 - WITH PICTURES :)

Presenting our first Christmas card ever!


And now our Christmas letter with the extra plus for you blog readers of added pictures to go with every month. Lucky you ;)

Richardson Review of 2012
January – Lydia and Mary spent a week in Arizona with grandparents while we Carnival Cruised the Mexican Riviera with siblings and cousins. Best trip EVER!!



February – Robert and Heidi celebrated their 3rd wedding anniversary, and Robert ripped his pants showing off his dance moves at the Ward Valentine’s Day Dance.



March – Flew to Texas to visit Robert’s brother Terrel and family. 


April – Robert was awarded the prestigious National Science Foundation Graduate Research Fellowship which will completely fund the remainder of his schooling and pay our living expenses. No more student loans!!

Celebratory dinner at Kianti's

May – Lydia turned 2! She surprises us every day with new things she has learned as she transitions from toddler to preschooler.



June – A month of sickness – Heidi went to the hospital for some severe food poisoning. Mary is now famous at our doctor’s office and urgent care from having a 107` fever from a nasty bladder infection. Lydia caught Hand, Foot, and Mouth disease. Robert played nurse through it all.

107` fever and still cute!

July – Robert’s brother Terrel and family moved only 40 miles away from us in Monterey. It’s so awesome having some family close to us for a while. Robert also turned 25. Old Man!!!



August – Mary turned 1! Mary’s all smiles as long as she’s allowed to do her own thing. We’ve decided she’s a child we are going to be taking to Urgent Care fairly often. She’s fearless of nearly everything and accident prone. Bad combo!


September – Heidi started piano lessons back up and is now up to 15 students.
October – Robert took and passed his 5th actuarial exam. Heidi, as Primary chorister, led the Primary program of the century. High fives were had all around!



November – Celebrated Thanksgiving here in Monterey with Robert’s family.



December – Looking forward to a 3 week vacation in Arizona for the holidays.


HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!

Our Christmas Vacay So Far :)

Look at me, posting about Christmas before March - This is nothing short of a miracle!

Mary Being Cute

Her favorite place to be in the whole house.


The licorice, the upside down glasses, the smile... You can't handle the cute!

Mesa Temple Christmas Lights
Lydia has been loving all of the houses with Christmas lights. Every single one we drove by, it was always, "Mommy, Daddy look! Wow!!" So we were very excited to take her to the temple lights. As we drove up to the temple we told her to look. She looked up and very flatly said "Too many." and looked back down. Apparently she draws the line at 100s of thousands of lights. She got more enthused about them as the night went on, but it definitely took some coaxing. :)

SEESTERS!!

My Loves!!

The reflection pool

I love to see the temple!

I wish we could have been as bundled up and cozy as they were.

Fun with the Johnston Family
Robert's mom's side of the family had some sort of activity going on every day of the week before Christmas. Robert took the girls with his mom to most of the things, but I only was able to go and sit at a couple of them, being on bed rest and all. But it was fun to see some of the cousins we haven't seen in a few years.






A double ringer by Robert's dad. It is possible!
  

5th Annual Nertz Reunion



Christmas PJs with the Richardsons
Robert's Grandma Peggy recently had a stroke and is at the stroke rehab center for the next several weeks. This kind of put a wedge in the Richardson Christmas traditions this year, but we were able to spend a Sunday evening there at the rehab center with the whole family. We performed several songs for all of the patients and then received our Christmas PJs and took pictures




Wilcken Christmas Eve

Lydia's partners in crime, cousins Case and Trew



Christmas Morning
Part 1 - Waking up at 5am to open presents at my parents' house.

Waiting for my dad to come out of the bathroom so we
could open presents. Some things never change :)

The Purple Monkey - Every time we asked Lydia what she wanted for Christmas she would say a purple monkey. Later she added a spotting scope, but the purple monkey was priority. We looked everywhere! We could find every kind of animal in purple except a monkey, and we could find pink or rainbow monkeys but not purple ones. Our friend, Kris Hewitt, heard of our predicament and said, "I could just make you one." She's amazing!! She made it, shipped it, and it got here on Christmas Eve. Her only request was that I take pictures of Lydia opening it on Christmas :)

Unwrapping...

Assessing...

Loving!!!!

Another favorite present of Lydia's from Christmas part 1 was her bike. I couldn't resist posting this picture that we took mid-sneeze. Classic!!


She loves it!

Mary and Lydia's first loot :)

Part 2 - We headed over to Robert's parents' to open presents.

The girls' new push car.

I got some AMAZING presents from Robert's family!! I'm still completely overwhelmed by them. The main 2 being the last 4 seasons of M*A*S*H that I needed to complete my whole set of the series (I know what I'm doing when I'm in the hospital!) and then my new guitar!


Crystal, Robert's 15 year old sister, had picked our name for the sibling exchange this year. When she saw that a guitar was on my wish list she insisted on getting it with all the money she had, working for what ever she didn't. I'm still amazed at her. A name for the guitar is in the works, but I have decided that it is definitely a girl :)

The girls also got a bunch of new bath toys and insisted on taking a bath as soon as we were done opening presents :)


Part 3 - Heading back to my parents' for breakfast and to play with all our new presents.


Every second Lydia was inside she wanted her purple monkey. They are best pals now.

PRESTON'S ENGAGED!!!
The day after Christmas, Preston proposed to Sharon Graham! They'll be getting married May 4th. So EXCITING!!!!!!


Bunco Night!



Grams got the best prize of all! :)

Salsa!!! 

My dad's Christmas salsa is the BEST! We ate
more than 2 gallons of it in this sitting :)
There has also been plenty of visiting with friends and family that was not documented with pictures, but the moments were just as loved :) And that brings us to today. We're currently preparing for a night of snacking and games as we welcome in the New Year!

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!!

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

"What Have You Been Doing?"

A couple of weeks ago I reached my goal of losing 30 pounds. It feels so good!! Several people have asked, "What have you been doing?" Well here's my answer. I've narrowed it down to 3 things that I think made the biggest change.

1.  I counted my calories and made my calories count.
2.  Exercise.
3. Bob Harper's Skinny Rules

Now to get to the nitty gritty details...
1.  I counted my calories and made my calories count.
My biggest tool in this was an app I used on my smartphone called MyFitnessPal. You can also just use this tool online at any computer, but having it on my phone made it really convenient and easy.


I input my height, weight, activity level, age, etc and set my weight loss goal at losing 2 pounds per week. The app automatically set my daily net calorie limit at 1210 calories. Net meaning that if I burned 300 calories exercising, I could eat 300 more calories that day. One really great thing about this app was that everyday when I would complete my food diary, it would say "If every day were like today, you will weigh lbs in 5 weeks." This number was always very motivating. I would go through cycles with this as far as how strict and exact I was with it. I would go a couple weeks where I would measure with measuring cups and spoons exactly how much I was eating, then for a few weeks I would feel like I could eyeball how much "one cup of cereal" or whatever looked like, but then I would again for a week here and there break out the measuring cups and spoons to check up on my estimates, which there were sometimes I was shamed to see that my eyeballed "one cup" of cereal had grown to be nearly double what it was supposed to be. Oops. Also, along the lines of "making calories count," I paid attention to what things made me feel fuller for longer, these almost always were foods that were higher in fiber and protein. For example, I felt much fuller and could usually make it to lunch without snacking if breakfast included a cup of Quaker Life Cinnamon Cereal (160 calories), but if I had a cup of Malt-O-Meal Cinnamon Toasters Cereal (173 calories) I would almost always need a snack between meals even though it was more calories than Life Cereal. Food for thought... literally.

2. Exercise
I won't spend too much time on this because I feel like most of my success came from changing my eating habits. Until my brain issues stopped us from doing so, Robert and I were training to run a 10k which was another New Year's resolution we had this year. Running has NEVER been my forte. I was very proud of myself for getting as far as I did. The last run we did before we decided I just shouldn't do any more was the longest either of us have ever run at once (no walking breaks) and that's 3.5 miles. Go us!!!
Aside from training to run a 10k, to go along with my weight loss I made it a goal to exercise for at least 30 minutes 4 days a week be it running or something else. As far as the weight loss goes, like I said, I think the nutrition was the more important factor in my case. But I will say that on days that I exercised it was by far easier to stay within or under my calorie limit and I think that not only is due to the fact that I got to eat more to make up for the calories I burned off, but also I just felt better about myself and more motivated. Also, especially when we were doing really great with running, I felt healthier than I ever have and I think I owe a good part of that to the exercise, not just the nutrition.

3. Bob Harper's Skinny Rules
Lastly, towards the beginning of when I got serious about losing weight I came across this book. Robert and I are fans of the show "Biggest Loser" and our favorite trainer is Bob Harper. I saw this book on Pinterest, found and bought it for cheap on Amazon and then didn't really think anything of it until I came to my first weight loss plateau. When that happened I thought I'd try following a few of the rules, just the first three. It immediately got me out of my plateau. Every time after that that I either felt like I was plateauing or wasn't losing as fast as I wanted, I would choose a couple more rules at random to start following, and it worked like a charm every time. The 20 rules are:

1. Drink a large glass of water BEFORE Every meal-No Excuses!
2. Don't Drink Your Calories
3. Eat Protein at EVERY Meal -or stay hungry & grouchy!
4. Slash Your Intake of Refined Flours & Grains
5. Eat 30-50 grams of FIBER per day!
6. Eat Apples & Berries Every single day- Yes, EVERY-SINGLE-DAY!
7. NO Carbs after Lunch (eat 'lean & green' at night)
8.Learn to Read Food Labels so You know what you are eating!
9. Stop Guessing about Portion Size & Get it Right-for good!
10. No more added sweeteners-including artificial ones!
11. Get rid of White potatoes!
12. Make one day a week Meatless
13. Get rid of fast foods & fried foods
14. Eat a REAL breakfast
15. Make your own food and eat at least ten meals a week at home
16.. Banish High Salt Foods
17. Eat Your Vegetables-(no excuses)- Just DO it!
18.Go to bed hungry!
19. Sleep Right
20. Plan one splurge MEAL per week

The book talks about each of these rules in great detail, then more than half the book has meal plans and recipes to help you follow the rules. So helpful!

And there you have it - my weight loss journey. I got serious about it the beginning of May and 7 months later, I am 30 pounds lighter and, aside from - you know - needing brain surgery, I am healthier than I've ever been ;)

Good luck with your journey! Wish me luck with my next goal - helping Robert lose at least 30 pounds. Heaven help me!

Monday, December 17, 2012

Random Fun

Well, I'm coming to you on bed rest from Mesa, AZ. After a very busy and stressful week I went through an especially bad episode of pain and weakness accompanied by numbness in my extremities, lack of balance, nearly passing out a couple times, and loss of fine motor control in my fingers that lasted a few days. Awesome right? We met with the neurosurgeon to get reevaluated on Wednesday, the 12th (my 10 year surgery anniversary, what are the odds). Our concern was that with the sudden worsening of symptoms we might need to move up the surgery that's scheduled in January. The doc said that it was just a result of overdoing myself, so he put me on modified bed rest from now until the surgery to avoid permanent nerve damage. In his words, "Indulge yourself in laziness. If you don't HAVE to get up, DON'T!" Robert asked if travelling to Arizona for the holidays was still an option. Obviously a long car ride is not ideal in my condition, but Robert felt like I would be more relaxed and would not be as tempted or feel as obligated to break the bed rest rules if I were surrounded by family keeping me from doing so. The doctor agreed, we moved up our trip, and here we are. I was somewhat dragging my feet the whole time. I was forced to stay in bed while Robert got us all packed for the trip (usually my job) on top of finishing up his school assignments, my visiting teachers took charge of finding subs for our church callings, and the ward and friends helped out with tending kids and meals those last few days we were in Santa Cruz. I HATE needing help and feeling like I'm such a burden to other people, and going to Arizona just meant I was going where I could be a burden to more of my family. But then yesterday I had another especially painful day, probably as a result of the car ride on Saturday. I was able to sleep in until after 10, I woke up and my sister was doing my girls' hair for church while Robert got himself ready, breakfast was taken care of, etc etc. It's SO nice! If for nothing else, Robert finally gets a break. He's had so much on his plate the past few weeks. It pushed him past the breaking point a couple of times. We have so much constant help here, and many hands make a burden seem light. We'll go back on January 5th, just 2 days before the surgery that is scheduled on the 7th.

Anyway, before they get lost in the shuffle, I wanted to post a few pictures from some random fun we had the past few weeks in Santa Cruz.

Ada's Princess Birthday Party
One of Lydia's favorite friends, Ada, turned 3 and had a princess birthday party. So fun to see all the little girls dolled up in their princess outfits.

All the princesses sandwiched between 2 princes.

How much cuteness can squish into one little nook?

Playing in the kids' room at the Creche Exhibit in Palo Alto

Dressed up as a sheep from the nativity costumes.

Blurry but still cute :)

Had to steal this picture of Lydia's friend Grant that was there the
same time we were. It's too much! Lydia has the cutest friends!!

Ward Christmas Party


Robert was Santa for our ward Chirstmas party. He was Santa Cruz style in shades and sandals. He looked at this picture and the following conversation happened...
Robert: I did that "cowabunga" hand sign in every picture.
Me: I think you mean "hang loose," but either way the sign you are doing is "I love you"
Robert: ... ... OH MAN!!!
Classic Robert :)

Brooklyn's Birthday Party
Brooklyn has joined the ranks of the 2 year olds! We went down to Monterey to join in the celebration.

Lydia "helped" Brooklyn blow out the candles by spitting all over a
corner of the cake. Don't worry, Robert and I ate that corner.

Brooklyn rocking the crazy glasses. Priceless :)

And now we are in holiday fun mode, which means I may or may not be posting much until after all the surgery fun. I guess it depends on how much I stick to the bed rest and need to post to pass the time... we'll see.

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!!!!!!

Thursday, December 6, 2012

Thankfuls

As many people do, I posted something I was thankful for on Facebook every day in November. I want to also post that list on here so it ends up in the blog binders. So here goes...

1. Thankful the greatest guy in the world proposed to me 4 years ago November 1st 
2. I'm so thankful for the Plan of Salvation and the knowledge of forever families 
3. Thankful Robert almost always drives the whole way on our road trips while I sleep :) 
4. Thankful for the many recent opportunities I've been given to use and share my musical talents. 
5. I'm thankful for cuddle moments with my babies. 
6. I'm thankful for those who have fought and those that continue to fight for our freedom to vote. 
7. CHOCOLATE MILK!!! 
8. My laminator. It's probably one of my top 5 favorite purchases I made this past year. 
9. Naptime aka Mommy time :) 
10. A clean house on a Saturday night. It makes me feel ready for the Sabbath. 
11. Our amazing Santa Cruz Ward! - Mary fell head first off of the stage during church today and got a concussion, and within a few minutes was throwing up everywhere. It was like the whole ward sprang into action and was at our side asking what they could do to help. We've been getting numerous phone calls and texts all day long from people checking in on her (which she's doing fine. A little fussy, but otherwise okay) It makes living away from family so much easier. The Santa Cruz Ward is our family too! 
12. Sunsets 
13. Helpful neighbors :) 
14. All of my many, Many, MANY cousins!!! Lyman, Wilcken, Hall, Nielsen, Richardson, and Johnston. They're awesome! Love them ALL! 
15. Our piano AKA Butch, and the many other blessings it's brought to us. 
16. My husband who is downstairs doing the dishes, while I'm curled up in bed. My hero!! 
17. Kidless date nights! 
18. Great friends that always have my back. 
19. A good cry. Sometimes it just makes me feel better. 
20. My family. I'm really missing them right now. 
21. 1- I was able to hear right away when we picked up a screw in our tire on the way home from the grocery store at 6:30. 2- We were able to find a place that was still open until 7 and it was only 5 minutes away from where we were. 3- It only cost $15 to repair. Awesome!! 
22. Holidays 
23. My inlaws! I really have the best. It's been a fun couple of days while they've been here. 
24. Daniel 3:17-18 “But if not…” 
25. Disposable diapers. Props to you that do cloth, but I for one appreciate the convenience of being able to throw the mess away. 
26. Modern medicine 
27. My Patriarchal blessing 
28. Mary 
29. Lydia 
30. Robert Richardson!

Happy November!!!!
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